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We focus on the wrong things
I don’t know why I’m still surprised by people and what they put their focus on, what they consider important or valuable. Several people in my family considers nothing I have accomplished in the past 10 years as valuable or as something proper. I’ve worked the front desk of a hotel for more than 10 […]
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It is what it is
Life is strange… sometimes I’m in this weird emotional and headspace and it’s very difficult for me to do any of the things I know I should do because they would help me get out of that kind of limbo I’m in and help me feel better. It is also especially difficult for me to […]
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Society needs to relearn humility
One of the biggest problems we currently have in society is that everyone takes everything so personally. Every little thing is looked at as a personal slight and people tend to forget, that the world does not revolve around them and other people have stuff they are going through too. Here’s an example: A person […]
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Not sure what the point of this is
This might be an unpopular opinion, but I don’t get pride month, or black history month or any other month or day like that, except Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. I get those two, at least symbolically and I always loved to surprise my mom with breakfast or a handmade present for her as a […]
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Don’t rush things
Isn’t it interesting how you can have some of your best ideas at the most random times and places? Honestly, that is pretty much always the case with me. I never have them when I would need them or when I spend hours upon hours thinking about a solution for my problem. Nope, my brain […]
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TV Shows promote emotional abuse
There’s this thing that I have noticed in TV shows over the last few years and it really bothers and worries me. Male characters are being put into mentally and emotionally abusive relationships in the name of feminism and girl power. And it is being celebrated. The male characters are being called toxic, and horrible […]
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Creating good habits
One of the hardest things to do is break old, bad habits and create new good ones. And I don’t know why. Rationally we usually know which of our habits are bad ones and we should change because it would make us feel so much better once we got rid of them. And yet, it […]
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The value of family
I feel like people forgot the meaning of the word parent or just how important a role the parents have in their children’s lives. I had dinner with my mom last night and it was really nice. My mom and I have very different views on a lot of things and usually don’t see eye […]